There are people who believe that you must first of all get it wrong before getting it right. It is not always the same path for everyone. Failure is part of success.
It is better to try and fail than fail to try, again not everyone must fail at their first attempt, some just get it right at once. Our path to success and purpose are not always the same.
You don’t have to build a template from your own personal experiences for others to follow.
Life to some is in 2-D or 3-D and for others multidimensional.