Dear Steve,
When a lady has seen domestic violence growing up. Seeing her father verbally abuse her mother when a misunderstanding occurs, the slightest misunderstanding between you would remind her of those ordeals. So don’t blame her when she blows up each time you both have a misunderstanding, constantly remind her that ” Look babe it’s normal for couples or intending couples to have issues, that doesn’t mean I would leave you, we just need to iron a few things out”.
Do you know why I suggested this? Many today are still dealing with childhood trauma… And it has triggers! – TOLULOPE
An eye opener!
Thanks