The day you reconnect with your former university coursemate don’t jump into excitement when you discover that he is not married yet, just because you had or still have a crush on him. And don’t begin to assume that maybe it is God that kept him single for you. Be careful! I know you’ve had unsuccessful relationships and you are vulnerable at this point. Apply the brake! Don’t start doing girlfriend “duties” when he hasn’t made his intentions known backed up with God’s approval of course. Shalom!