Dear Steve and Samantha,
It is a beautiful thing when you marry your first love. And it is more beautiful and blissful when you marry your own. Sometimes, your first love may turn out not to be the “one”. Accepting this would save you a lot emotionally, and non-acceptance could cost you your freedom and the ability to move on. Feelings can be very crazy and could mess you up if not well managed. Remember that what you see in Bollywood Movies is different from reality. Shalom!
You’re right!
May God give us clarity of mind.